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Move On! Nothing to see here

One figure appears to be shouting into the megaphone, while the other seems to be listening directly through theirs.

Let's be honest, we've all been there. 


Scrolling through our social feeds, perhaps with a cup of tea in hand, and suddenly BAM! 

Another post pops up, overflowing with righteous indignation about [insert vaguely defined "them"], [insert vaguely defined "the situation"], or [insert recent news event they have absolutely no inside knowledge of].


It's a digital symphony of sighs, rants, and keyboard warrior cries. 


And while it might feel cathartic for the poster, have you ever stopped to think about what you're doing when you engage with it?


Because here at ReFresh Coaching, we've noticed a pattern. 


A rather amusing (if slightly concerning) one. It seems a good chunk of social media is dedicated to people passionately complaining about things they:


  • Can't control: The weather, global politics, your neighbour's questionable garden gnomes.

  • Have no control over: See above. Also, the rise and fall of cryptocurrency, celebrity fashion choices, and why your local supermarket is always out of digestive biscuits.

  • Possess absolutely no specific knowledge of: That political scandal? The intricacies of that international trade agreement? The inner workings of a black hole? Yeah, probably not.


And here's the kicker, folks: a significant number of these digital whiners are, whether consciously or not, playing to the algorithm. 


They're dropping the bait, hoping you'll bite. 


They thrive on the engagement, the arguments, the "likes" that come from stirring the pot. 


It's like a bizarre online wrestling match where the prize is… more arguments!


So, what's a savvy, sanity-preserving individual to do? 


How do you navigate this minefield of manufactured outrage without getting sucked into the vortex of digital despair?


We have a revolutionary, cutting-edge, incredibly complex solution for you. Are you ready? Drumroll please…

The Delete Button.


Gasp! The sheer audacity!

Or, even better, simply scroll past it.


That's right. You don't have to engage. 

You don't have to correct them. 

You don't have to offer your profound wisdom on a topic they're clearly just using to drum up a digital ruckus.

Because, as we famously say here at ReFresh Coaching:

"Control what you can control, and let go what you cannot."


You can control what you consume.

You can control how you react. 

And by choosing to disengage from the endless cycle of online moaning, you're not just saving your own sanity, you're also starving the algorithm of the very thing it craves: your attention.


So, the next time you see a post that makes your blood boil, your fingers twitch with a witty retort, or your eyes roll so hard you fear they'll get stuck, take a deep breath. 


Remember the delete button. Remember the scroll. 


And remember, your peace of mind is far more valuable than a digital skirmish you were never meant to win.


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